Baptisms

 

The baptism of a baby, a child or an adult would normally take place during one of the morning services.  This is because baptism is about receiving the newly baptised into the fellowship of faith and as such it is important for that same fellowship of other believers, the church, to be present.

 

During the Baptism part of the service there will be the following elements…

 

  • A promise by the members of the church to welcome the candidates and to support them in their Christian life.

  • A declaration of what it means to live as a baptised follower of Jesus Christ  or in the case of infants & children, a promise by  parents & Godparents that they will help the child to take their place in the life and worship of the church and that they will walk alongside them in the way of Christ

  • A declaration of faith by the candidates for baptism or, in the case of infants & children, by someone speaking on their behalf.

  • The making of the sign of the cross on the candidates for baptism to show that they belong to Christ and must be prepared to live as his followers.

  • A prayer asking God to use the water of baptism to cleanse the candidates from sin and give them new life as part of his people.

  • A declaration of Christian faith

  • Baptism with water in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit 

  • Welcome into the church

  • The presentation of a lighted candle to those who have been baptised. This symbolises the fact that Christ said that those who follow Him should glorify their heavenly Father by shining like lights amidst the darkness of the world (Matthew 5:14-16).

 

Godparents

The role of Godparents is often confused with the legal role of guardians, but the two roles are entirely separate.

The role of Godparents is to speak on behalf of the infant being baptised during the baptism service itself and to support the parents in bringing the child up as a Christian within the family of the Church, so that that they will confess the faith for themselves and come in due time to confirmation.

 

In order that they can fulfil their role Godparents need to be able to make the declarations and promises in the baptism services, which is why the Church of England requires all Godparents to be baptised themselves and normally to be confirmed as well. That is also why it is not possible for a member of another faith to be a Godparent.

 

Those who are baptised as infants or children usually have three Godparents; two of the same sex as the infant and one of the opposite sex.

 

Preparation for baptism

The Team Vicar, Pauline, will come and talk with you about the arrangements for the baptism and about the meaning of baptism.  We also invite all parent of children and infants who are being baptised to a ‘Baptism Party’ which is an informal setting, starting with a meal, to think about the significance of baptism

 

A service of thanksgiving

Many people seek baptism for their children because they want to give thanks to God for their child’s arrival into the world. From a Christian perspective, it is right that they should want to do this, but, as can be seen from what has been said about baptism above, this is not what the baptism service is for.

 

As an alternative we can offer a service of Thanksgiving for the Gift of a Child.  This service is about giving thanks for the miracle of new life, and it is not an alternative to baptism since it is not part of the process of Christian initiation. If a service of thanksgiving is held, baptism may then follow at a later date.

 

Arranging a Baptism

Please contact the Team Vicar, Pauline Scott.

 

 
 

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